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Regency Culture and Society: 10 Maxims for Conduct in Life (4)

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We presented the first 10 Maxims here. And the next 11 here. And another 1o here. You have sent so much fun feedback and wonderful comments, we Continue →

Regency Culture and Society: 10 Maxims for Conduct in Life (3)

By Anne | April 28, 2021 - 7:28 am |May 14, 2021 Regency Culture and Society, Regency Customs

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We presented the first 10 Maxims here. And the next 11 here. As we wrap up April, we thought we would share another 10 Maxims from Continue →

Regency Culture and Society: 11 Maxims for Conduct in Life (2)

By Anne | April 18, 2021 - 7:58 am |April 28, 2021 Regency Culture and Society

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We presented the first 10 Maxims here. Here are 11 more from A Treatise on Politeness, etc (1813) authored by A Lady:

Regency Culture and Society: Raillery and Pleasantry in Conversation

By Anne | March 24, 2021 - 6:07 am |April 14, 2021 Regency Culture and Society, Regency Customs

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ON RAILLERY AND PLEASANTRY Raillery has always been considered as tending to enliven conversation it is however a dangerous experiment extremely difficult to practise the bitterness and severity which form a part of it being calculated to sew dissensions and to destroy the strongest friendship Refined raillery pleases those who hear it without wounding the feelings of those whom it particularly affects How difficult a task this to be merry at the weaknesses and follies of our companions and at the same time not offend them In the general we begin to rally a person without intending to offend him we wish to entertain the company but not to distress the individual we must then change the subject the moment we perceive that it is embarrassing or painful Generally speaking I would forbid raillery

In this installment from A Treatise on Politeness, etc (1813) authored by A Lady, we learn about the principles of good-humored teasing and other social Continue →