Regency Reader Questions: Dens, Parlors, and Living Rooms

Thanks for the question, Kia, and for being a Regency Reader!

I think its a great question and another one of those “it depends” answers.

Den has a lot of regional/national nuances, as well as differences depending on the time period.  Generally, it refers to a small, private room for activities like informal entertainment (reading, playing games, radio, and eventually television).  It is also sometimes used as a study space for a home office, or small home library.  Alternatively, it might have served as an early version of a “man cave” for billiards, cards, or smoking cigars.

Den is most commonly a North American term, but is sometimes used interchangeably in the UK with “snug” or a small, informal space.  An 1897 dictionary confirms that dens were generally though of as small, intimate spaces secondary to larger rooms in a household (Bradley, 1888).

The term living room was coined circa the mid 19th century to describe a room where social activities occurred, but was not widespread until post WW I with changing household sizes, leisure, and the impact that the pandemic of 1918 had on mourning/funeral practices (What is the origin of the term ‘living room’? | Reflections… (wordpress.com)).  Initially, the living room was a symbol of wealth and high status but trailed behind the parlour/parlor room (circa 17th century) for meeting guests and engaging in private activities (Worsley, 2012).  The parlor was pre-dated by the drawing (or withdrawing) room which was initially (medieval era) used as a private chamber for aristocrats to meet with intimate friends and family (Worsley, 2012).

Worsely (2012) also traces the rise in the 19th century in dedicated smoking/billiard rooms for gentlemen and morning rooms for ladies, particularly for households that also maintained music, library, saloon, and conservatory rooms.  In some respects, a den might have served multiple purposes in a more modest, middle class home (music, library, smoking, etc.).  We can see, for example, in this 1975 advertisement the den is an additional, small space that could have been used as a “fourth bedroom, guest room, or study.”

М 3 Q 630 CIRCULATING COPY Bedroom House RICULTURE LIBRARY UN 3 MI Ho COOPERATIV with carport FARM BUILDING and den Plan No 7202 Cop 3 SHEETS PLAN EXCHANGI w ILIWA Illino holloin lilililila Piinle iliniiiiniitiinilnih innu 41 all Mediul Tarla Wni Wilmini in Sim WWAA uniw 11111 Tue winan un Milloi WW Tanaman WHlllll IWC milim Hola Riwa 59 BATH LAUNDRY KITCHEN DEN BEDROOM DINING BATH U CARPORT HAHAH H 29 LIVING HHAHH MUHA BEDROOM BEDROOM WHME as well as in the den A linen closet is centrally located in the hall for easy access to all the bedrooms There are two bathrooms in this spacious house One is located with access only from the master bedroom The other equipped with a shower instead of a tub is centrally located in the hall With such a large house and large family mom will surely need her own washer and dryer Space for these appliances has been provided for in a laundry storage area directly off the carport and the kitchen The water heater is also located in this area The laundry can be screened from the kitchen by an accordion type door The entrance to the kitchen from the carport is in the laundry area This allows for short distances for mother to carry the groceries The kitchen is combined with the dining area There is a generous amount of storage space in the kitchen provided for by base cabinets wall hung units and a broom closet Directly in front of the sink is a large window for improved lighting during daylight hours and for viewing the children at play in the yard The living room is situated next to the dining area The open arrangement of this design allows for flexibility of space The large living room is enhanced by a picture 05 10 20 PLAN Three bedrooms and a den make this house flexible for various sized families Whether you have two three or four children this house can accommodate your needs The den can be used as a fourth bedroom a guest room or study Ample closet space is provided in the bedrooms Washington DC February 1975 UNITED STATES DEPARTMENT OF AGRICULTURE Miscellaneous Publication No 1295 For sale by the Superintendent of Documents US Government Printing Office

I found another mid century (1960) Better Homes and Gardens book that also talks about the study being used as a guest room or smaller living room space, but also mentions crafts like sewing or tasks like reading.

So, dens were generally a “flex space” for households, mostly likely middle income, to use for whatever their household needs were: a home office, craft room, guest bedroom, or less formal living room.

The Regency household was more likely to have parlors and drawing rooms for their social activities, with dens rising in popularity in the Victorian era as industrialization brought new wealth to more households and helped to increase the overall size of homes (particularly in North America).

Bradley, H. (1888). A New English Dictionary on Historical Principles: Founded Mainly on the Materials Collected by the Philological Society. United Kingdom: Clarendon Press.
Hicks, A. (2019). Rooms with a History: Interiors and Their Inspirations. United States: Rizzoli.
Hutchison, J. A. (1994). If Rooms Could Talk: History, Houses, and Home Life [Review of American Home Life, 1880-1930: A Social History of Spaces and Services, by J. Foy & T. J. Schlereth]. Reviews in American History, 22(4), 614–619. https://doi.org/10.2307/2702808
Spencer-Churchill, H. (2012). The Life of the House: How Rooms Evolve. United States: Random House Incorporated.
Worsley, L. (2012). If Walls Could Talk: An Intimate History of the Home. United Kingdom: Bloomsbury Publishing.
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