Thanks for the question, Marina, and for being a Regency Reader!
I have answered a similar question about port here: Regency Reader Questions: After Dinner Port – Regency Reader that goes into some detail about the etiquette of port drinking. I think it probably depended on the individual couple and their preferences. In fiction, it could certainly show a distance between the couple if they chose to follow this ritual while conversely abandoning port to visit together over a cup of tea or sherry might convey a sense of closeness. I imagine what actually happened existed on a spectrum depending on variables including a couple’s relationship, their individual preferences, and how rigid they were in observing rituals.
Tea is a fascinating subject, and I have a video post that gives a brief overview about tea drinking and how it was feminized until the Regency era: https://www.tiktok.com/@regencyreader/video/7550302844587379999?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc&web_id=7576014121331230263. Needless to say, until the later Regency tea was often thought of as a woman’s drink.
Prior to 1783, when William Pitt the Younger cut the tea tax from 119% to 12.5%, tea was a popular black market product (How tea conquered Britain – BBC Bitesize). It often was kept locked away because of the expense prior to the 18th century, when tea drinking started to grow exponentially in popularity. With it came the increase in sugar consumption, too (Steeped in history: Tea drinking in Britain | London Museum).
Coffee had grown in popularity with the coffeehouses of London where business and politics was done for decades, and so by the Regency there was still a lingering gender divide between coffee and tea. Heyer on occasion, has her heroes or other male characters calling tea “cat-lap” or some other derogatory term, reflecting some attitudes about tea.
There were a lot of different attitudes about tea, including its health benefits or impacts:
I have found tea was ubiquitous throughout the Regency era at public and private functions as a complementary beverage, usually alongside coffee. I think at home, this was increasingly the case:
L. (1827). Domestic Economy, and Cookery: For Rich and Poor; Containing an Account of the Best English, Scotch, French, Oriental, and Other Foreign Dishes; Preparations of Broths and Milks for Consumption; Receipts for Sea-faring Men, Travellers, and Children’s Food : Together with Estimates and Comparisons of Dinners and Dishes …. United Kingdom: Longman, Rees, Orme, Brown and Green.
I have also found, particularly towards the end of the long Regency, that it was factored into household budgets including as an allowance (tea and sugar) for staff as part of their wages, or at least a varying scale of wages based on whether or not they were responsible for their own tea and sugar.
This suggests to me that by the end of the Regency era, tea drinking was commonplace. I do think it was dear and so often rationed in less wealthy households as the following suggests:
L. (1827). Domestic Economy, and Cookery: For Rich and Poor; Containing an Account of the Best English, Scotch, French, Oriental, and Other Foreign Dishes; Preparations of Broths and Milks for Consumption; Receipts for Sea-faring Men, Travellers, and Children’s Food : Together with Estimates and Comparisons of Dinners and Dishes …. United Kingdom: Longman, Rees, Orme, Brown and Green.
I have found many sources that reference higher and lower quality tea, similar to what you would find today. One source from the early Victorian era lists “inferior tea” at a cost of 16s 8d for one pound. In one of my new favorite sources, we have for an income of 1,000 pounds per annum a budget for tea and coffee for the family of 5 shillings a week (A New System of Practical Domestic Economy. (1823). United Kingdom: H. Colburn and Company.). Depending on a family’s relative wealth, I could see a rationing approach to limiting cups of tea or coffee consumed.
Hope that is helpful. There is a lot more to say about tea — it’s a fascinating subject, so let me know if you have questions in the comments below.
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Thank you, this was very informative! As always